There is a space within ones heart an maybe even the mind that needs to be filled in very man. And it also applies to women too. This space I am speaking for is the part of the heart and mind that love resides.
There are several types of love. There's the love of family, the way you love your parents, grandparents or children. Then there's the love you have for your friends (women call it love and men call it bonding) but its still the same type. But that is still not the love that I am talking of.
The love I am speaking of is that of a 'significant other.' There is nothing in this world that compares to having that love. Knowing that the person next to you is there when you need them and that you always have someone to have fun with.
I am sure there are people right now saying, "Direwulf, what the hell are you talking about? Your making no sense." C'mon, we all been single at least once. And whether we care to admit it or not, it sucked! There are people that can fake the funk if you know what I mean. They pretend they are so happy or don't care to be single and not have he or she hanging on them, telling them what to and what not to do. Those people are the most lonely.
Deep down they are miserable, having no one to share their day with or secrets to. They think that they will never find anyone and when they do they are afraid to get to attached. Afraid that they will just get hurt again in the end if the relationship goes wrong. More often the possible relationship never gets past the flirt or friendship stage.
The one seeking the relationship usually waits for the 'interest' to make the final move and progress the relationship deeper. And this is where it usually spells 'no go' for the male seeking female situation. The male will take the relationship, say, to the friendship stage and stop. Waiting for the female to make the advances in the relationship.
And when this happens, the female.... well if any females care to explain the possibilities of different thoughts let me know, e-mail me. But I think the female usually assumes that the male isn't interested enough in her and doesn't care to take it further.
Now as far as the roles reversed, I am not touching that. The female mind isn't understood by me and probably never will be. So any females care to write a section on this, then do so and send it to me. I'll add it and give you all the credit. -D
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being lonely.
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Romance.
Ok, maybe I don't know a whole hell of a lot in this field. But I can give you some ideas on what romance or a romantic occasion is to me.
Romance to me is the act of being made felt special and the making someone feel special and important in your life. This could be done in many ways depending on how simple or extensive the act has to be according to the couple.
To me some of the simple could be coming home from a day of work, crashing on the couch or chair and just having someone there to listen to how your day went. Simple also maybe staying up late to watch a favorite movie with each other. Just the little things taken for granted that is usually missed just after a relationship has just ended.
Now the extensive is what ever the mind can think of. A romantic evening could be taking the day to prepare a nice candle lit meal to surprise the lady of the evening. After the dinner was over, build a fire in the fireplace and curl up with each other on the couch or floor, sharing a bottle of wine, and talking the evening away, falling asleep in each others arms.
Of course I know I'm going to get people saying that the situation above is over done. Well to bad. That's what I like, and the idea of a relationship is to share things in life with someone that shares the same interests and loves you just as much. -D
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Age.
Oh, this is simple... IT DOESN'T MATTER PEOPLE IF YOU LOVE THE PERSON ENOUGH!! -D
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